Winter Blues: What You Need To Know About Seasonal Affective Disorder And PPD

winter bluesOn seasonal affective disorder, what the symptoms of SAD are, and how it may impact moms with postpartum depression …

It has taken me a while to get this post to all of you.  Each time that I have tried to sit down and put thought and experience onto paper, I have felt stumped by lacking creativity.  Perhaps it is the transition back from the holidays, I have wondered.  Or the demands of a developing tw0-and-a-half-year-old.  Or a busy practice and paperwork on my desk.  Or the driving desire to get out of my office and release some steam outside only to be reminded that it is wet and gray and too cold out there for my running preference.

Or, as Katherine reminded me, it might just be that it is the middle of winter.

Winter.  It can be a tough time for all of us.  The days get shorter and colder, the weather often chaotic, the roads sometimes dangerous, the gas bills go up.  Fresh fruits and vegetables can be harder to find and usually become more expensive in these long months.  Runny noses abound and the flu seems to be around every corner.  The air gets drier, our skin cracks, and we often are not drinking enough water.  Children tend to go stir crazy when the playtime outdoors is limited.  And, if we do attempt to get those little ones outside, the efforts at managing struggling kiddos into appropriate layers can feel for naught when red-cheeked toddlers decide that they are cold and wet after only a few minutes of play.

Winter tends to be a time when our neighbors are rarely seen, when communities are harder to access, and when we find ourselves spending more time at home.  We tend to loose our patience more.  We tend to have a harder time concentrating.  We often have less energy.  We feel less creative.  We might, even, suffer from a bit of Seasonal Affective Disorder. [Read more...]

Mom Searched Two Years For Diagnosis of Postpartum OCD

Every now and then I get an email from a mom that reinforces why we need so much more awareness of perinatal mood and anxiety disorders, even among physicians.  I’ve reprinted Britta Brooks’ email here, with her permission:

I reached out and reached out again and again, but was told that I do not have depression.  Because I took care of my household (a little too much, by the way … I cleaned and cleaned) and because I felt close to my daughter, my family physician said I didn’t have postpartum depression and that I should not worry about my visions and thoughts.

I thought I was going crazy. Maybe it was just in my head. It felt to me almost like I needed to know my own diagnosis to find the right doctor. I eventually talked to my OB/GYN — by that time my little girl was more than two years old — and he misinterpreted what I was telling him. I told him without sugar coating it what I visually saw (intrusive thoughts).  I told him the truth because I was so desperate for help and thought I had nothing to lose, and the truth landed me in a closed psychiatric unit. [Read more...]

Join Me In A Live Chat on Postpartum Depression Tomorrow

On Wednesday January 25th, I will be hosting a live chat on postpartum depression at The Motherhood.  The chat is at 1pm Eastern and I really hope you’ll join me!  We can chat, I can answer your questions, you can share your thoughts about postpartum depression, anxiety, antenatal depression or anxiety, postpartum OCD or PTSD … whatever you want!  I hope you can make it!  To join in, please register (it’s free) here.

Keeping Up With The Latest on Postpartum Depression

I know you want to make sure you always have the latest information on postpartum depression, and access to continual support and hope. Several of you have mentioned you haven’t been receiving your subscription emails to Postpartum Progress. Don’t know why, but I thought this would be a good time to let everyone know how the subscriptions work.

First, it’s free.  Second, a subscription makes it much easier to keep up with what is happening on the site. You don’t have to constantly check in by finding going to our site every day. Instead, you can get an email each morning that tells you if there are new posts (posts is just the word for articles or stories when it comes to blogging). You’ll see the name of each new post plus a quick summary. That will allow you to decide whether you want to click through and read the whole thing, or if it doesn’t pertain to you. [Read more...]

Fact Checking The Postpartum Depression Doubters: “Pills Are The Easy Way Out”

Gina over at The Feminist Breeder Blog recently realized that she is suffering from postpartum anxiety. She was able to reach out for, and get, help from a psychiatrist.   She wrote about the negative reaction she got on the web from some readers after she said she’d be taking medication in a post titled, “And This Is Why We Don’t Talk About Our Anxiety Problems on the Internet“.

As you might imagine, there were people who think she is wrong to take medication and that there are plenty of other ways to get over depression and anxiety than antidepressants.  You already know how I feel about people who judge others’ treatment decisions.  (Grrrrrrr.)  I thought it would be fun to do a little Fact Check on some of the statements people made, as shared by Gina in her post:

“You can cure this with raw cashews.” [Read more...]

46 Million Americans Report Having Struggled With Mental Illness

Think you’re alone? That no one else is struggling with their mental health? Think again. New research shows that one out of every five Americans reports they suffered from a mental illness in the previous year.  That’s 46 million people, y’all. You’re among FORTY SIX MILLION people.

It’s not just you.  In fact, SAMHSA, which conducted the study, says women had a greater risk for mental illness than men (23% versus 16.8%).

MedPage Today reports that among the, “… nearly 46 million U.S. adults who reported having had a mental, behavioral, or emotional disorder when surveyed in 2010, some 60% didn’t receive any treatment for the condition.  The most common reason for not getting mental healthcare was not being able to afford it.”

Reading that is like getting stabbed in the heart. No care? For something as important as mental health? How can this be happening!

It is interesting to note that a much smaller percentage (5%) said their symptoms interfered with living their daily lives. That leads me to wonder how many are suffering moderate to severe clinical depression, anxiety or other issues — the kind that really needs professional treatment — as compared to those that may have mild or situational problems.   MedPage today said that among those who had more serious symptoms, 39% were not receiving treatment.

 

The Latest News on Depression After Childbirth

postpartum depression newsI’ve got several events and pieces of research to tell you about related to postpartum depression and I figure the most efficient way to get this done is to just whip out a list.  So here goes:

  • > On January 25th at 1pm Eastern I will be hosting a live chat about postpartum depression on The Motherhood.  Please plan to join in. Ask your questions. Share your story with others who need to hear it.  To register to participate, click here.  If you can’t make it you can always submit a question in advance!
  • > The St. Joseph Medical Center Women’s Behavioral Unit in Houston, Texas, which treats women with postpartum depression and related illnesses, is holding an open house on February 9 from 4:30 to 7pm.  If you’d like to attend, please RSVP to 713-757-7575.  Free parking will be available for attendees.
  • > A  2009 study found that as many as 30% of Latinas in the United States experience postpartum depression. Postpartum Support International has created a great DVD for the Spanish-speaking population called  Madre Saludable, Familia Feliz.  To order a copy, click here.
  • > Have you signed up for Daily Hope yet? If not, you’re missing out, or so people tell me.  I’ve heard from many subscribers that getting Daily Hope helps them get through each day!
  • > The Isis Parenting event at which I’m speaking in Boston (Needham, MA) on the evening of February 15 is for physicians only.  However, they’ve received several inquiries from families and others who would like to attend and are thinking about creating a second event on the 16th that is open to all, including consumers, doulas, lactation specialists, etc.  Wanted to let you know in case you are interested.
  • > Psych Central ran a great piece yesterday called “5 Damaging Myths of Postpartum Depression“. Be sure to check it out.
  • > On the research front:

The Intensity of Postpartum Depression

From Postpartum Progress contributor Robin Farr, author of Farewell Stranger and postpartum depression survivor …

I’m going to ask you a question that might make you wonder whether I’ve gone nuts. Or maybe not. Maybe you’ll know exactly what I mean. But first, a story.

One day, around the time I was finally starting to feel better, I went for a walk with a friend. He, too, has suffered from depression and was an excellent sounding board during my really rough months of postpartum depression.

I remember that day so clearly – we took advantage of the sunshine and walked the loop around the bog near my house. We had passed the ducks and had trekked up to the top of the hill that curved away from the main part of the bog. We walked down the other side, making our way back towards the marshy section that led to the cool, tree-covered path.

As we came down the bottom of that slope I asked my friend how he was doing, knowing he had recently been in a better place but wanting to be sure.

“Doing well,” he confirmed. “But I sort of miss the intensity of the emotion, you know?” [Read more...]

The Wonderful Disappointment

the wonderful disappointmentMy husband left for an out of town meeting, so it was just me and the kids for the rest of this three-day weekend.  Then my son’s best friend called, and off he went to have a sleepover last night.  It was down to me and my little girl.

My daughter is obsessed with sleepovers because she sees her big brother doing them.  She’s only five, and she is determined that when she turns six in March her party will be a slumber party at our house.  She’s already attempted a sleepover at another house twice.  Both times it was at her four-year-old friend’s house which is directly behind ours.  I could hit it with a lazily thrown tennis ball.  My daughter could look out the window and see her own house.  Yet both times she came back.  She couldn’t do it.  She said, “There was something missing, mama, and I think it was you.”

Dad is gone. Brother is gone. And now my little one decides she’ll make attempt number three and off she goes.  Fine by me, I thought.  She’ll be back.

I fully expected our neighbor would knock at the back door sometime before 10pm with my sweet little girl in her pajamas, but the knock never came.  Last evening, at 6pm, I ended up completely by myself.  You’d think I would have loved it, but for most of the time I just felt lonely. I missed my everyone. I secretly hoped my daughter would come back, or perhaps even my son, so we could curl up together and hang out.  Instead I stayed on the couch until midnight waiting for someone to show up who never did.

Why am I telling you this? Because there was a time when the LAST thing I wanted was to be alone with my children.  Postpartum depression made me afraid. It made me believe I was a terrible mom and I couldn’t handle the job. I was anxious and convinced that something would go wrong.  Being alone at home for two days with my baby felt like drowning.    Yet here I was, with an opportunity to be alone, and the only thing I wanted was for my babies to be with me.

If you’re someone who is going through or has been through postpartum depression, you understand the colossal difference between wanting to run away and being desperate to be near.

This is what happens when you recover from postpartum depression and anxiety.  You won’t be afraid anymore.  You won’t want to run away or be alone simply because you think it will protect you somehow.

Some day, you will be as disappointed as I was last night.  Wonderfully disappointed.  I’m so excited for you.

Photo credit: © Dimitrios – Fotolia.com

Postpartum Depression And A Celebrity Mom, Gawker-Style

celebrity moms with postpartum depressionOh Gawker, you’re so awesome.  Clearly you understand the significance of postpartum depression, how painful and devastating it is for a new mom — even a celebrity mom — and for her partner.  That’s why you printed this today:

“This A list celebrity couple is taking a break. Apparently the new baby in their life has caused some post partum depression for the mother and she really does not want to be around her significant other so they are spending all their time apart for now except when required for some type of previously scheduled joint appearance. Apparently the mother is also seeing the same doctor who treated this B++ actress who is married to a has been A+ movie actor.”

Because really, when a new family that needs all the support that it can get has its struggles printed for the world to see that’s so helpful.  Not.

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