I have heard from so many Warrior Moms, as well as from some family members and friends of Warrior Moms and from the healthcare professionals who treat them. So many of you were disturbed by ABC's treatment of what they termed in their promotional materials as "postpartum depression" on the February 12"Private Practice" episode entitled "Ex-Life". I wanted to share with all of you some of the commentary I received, so that you can see the kind of impact media, whether news or entertainment, has on vulnerable women.
Some were comments to the original post that you may not have seen, others have been direct emails to me. Some are allowing me to use their names, others prefer to remain anonymous, and I respect all of them regardless of their preference. Anne Sweeney, president of the Disney-ABC Television Group, I hope you read these:
Nicole Piervencenti: "OH MY GOD – I was just LIVID – I am definitely not watching it anymore and it was a fav of mine … totally irresponsible – my husband is tired of hearing me rant and rave … just awful …I am now in grad school for Mental Health Counseling and we are discussing stigma – boy oh boy do I have something to add to that discussion …"
Sandra: "I agree with you 100% about the postpartum psychosis episode of 'Private Practice.' These harmful views of mental illness only serve to stigmatize and cause unnecessary fear among those who are uneducated about the facts. I pledge to never watch a future episode of ABC's 'Private Practice.'"
Kathy: "I am a psychotherapist and am completely appalled at the way a therapist was portrayed on the show. I plan to speak out to friends and family to tell them to ban the show!"
Kelly Jaszka: "I was in shock the entire time the story line unfolded, and I know I shouldn't take it this way, but I feelthe way they portrayeditis a personal insult to me and every single mother who has or is experiencing a postpartum mood disorder. I have been suffering from severe PPD/Anxiety since a few days after the birth of my daughterin October, and am just starting to slowly come out of it with the help of medication. I have been hospitalized for a few days and this has been the hardest time of my life. As I start to get better I am becoming a huge advocate for postpartum mood disorders and have been telling my story to anyone who will listen. I am a school psychologist, and I have encountered a few people who think that this does not happen to people like me, and that because it did, I am not good at what I do because I cannot help myself. It's sick to think of all the people who completely misunderstand PPD and other postpartum issues, and how they treat us because of their ignorance. I was hoping that the 'Private Practice' episode would shed some light on what it's really like for us, and that it would be educational for people, especially my family. How wrong was I?"
Melissa Jacobowitz: "I'm with all the others — completely disappointed in the approach the show took. From what I've been reading on your site, this was absolutely no help to those of us who have suffered or the future moms who will suffer."
Jessica Banas: "This hyper sensationalism in the media happens frequently and is WHY I almost never promote TV shows at the Online PPD Support Group, Katherine. Unfortunately, television producers can't seem to resist the urge to go with hype over facts and this results in promoting fear over help every time. Now, we at our humble support sites will have to deal with the fallout. Frankly, I'd rather do that than deal with ignorant angry people over at the Private Practice Website Poll….been there done that …"